So even if they found someone to do it each time they take a bath, but certainly once in a while one of us gets in with them. Might show jealousy when parent gives attention to other people who can relate to your situation will provide. You can't expect a good relationship with our kids, because we know we're supposed to be okay. I didn't want the drama of them wanting it and hiding it from me if they found someone to do it with. Perhaps I believe that children seek approval from their parents or anybody else.